When we began our journey together

we had no idea what we were doing or what we should do next, but we yearned to feel authentic. We wanted to feed that burning, to take on life and suck out the marrow, to be our unique and powerful selves.


There have been challenges, but living a life of intent; living within a well negotiated authority transfer structure, one that compliments our ethical polyamory with a dedicated power exchange structure of our making, allowed us to explore the deepest of our desires and to bring light into the darkness of which we sometimes play.

Chris and elisha standing together at South Plains 2019

We research, teach, play, and live in the world of ethical, non-monogamous, polyamorous, leather, and BDSM communities. We primarily focus on personal research and outcomes related to:

  • Polyamorous relationships
  • Polyamory education (ethical non-monogamy)
  • Power Exchange Relationships
  • Authenticity / Authentic Selves
  • Living with Intent
  • Consent Negotiations and Education